What are you fighting?
Resistance always brings pain. Examine your struggle.
What does your personality want from the situation? What does your soul want?
What can you learn from this?
Always strive to mend separation and achieve unity.
Always choose love over fear.
If you can embrace whatever you are struggling against, the struggle will disappear.
"What you resist persists. And only what you look at, and own, can disappear. You make it disappear by simply changing your mind about it." -- Neale Donald Walsch